My ex-husband cheated on his first wife. He cheated on me. He cheated on his long time time mistress named Sandy. He had two children by two other women while we were married. He pretty much screwed anything female. 

Now he is married to the woman he was cheating with when he was with Sandy. She thinks she has changed him, that he won’t cheat on her, and I just laugh. He uses the exact same excuses he used on me. He has to work, he stopped to get coffee and ran into someone he knows, his phone died. On and on and on. 

Why do women choose to get involved with a man, even knowing his history as a liar and a cheat?

Oh yes, people -can- change. But the first step to making a change is admitting that you need to, that you have messed up. If you are unwilling to admit to your mistakes, you are either prone to making the same ones, or you are just content to keep screwing people over. 

It always amazes me when women cry over being cheating on when they were with a man who has a long history of doing it. They scream and cry, “But I didn’t know!” Oh yes, you did. You just chose to ignore the truth. 

I won’t.